I started this week talking about the glow our children exude. Like anything that glows, I know that my children are treasures. In my children there are a series of gifts from God to me. Babies are God’s most tender, tiny offerings to us. Designed to break down the walls of our hearts, leaving us open to receive Him. Until I became a mom, I like to say that I was a tough cookie. I was practical, rational, not prone to emotional decision making, public displays of affection, and I can’t say I was very empathetic.
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Having a baby changed everything. Maybe it’s the tsunami of hormones that
release a rushing tide of emotions, but suddenly how I saw the world, and any
hallmark commercial, resulted in a surge of feeling and the complete demolition
of any protective wall I had built up around my heart. These gifts of life from God’s personal
treasure room have time after time made me slow down, hold my breath, come to
tears and even drop everything. They
have breathed life into this mother’s heart.
As difficult, exhausting and all-consuming as it can be to
parent little ones, the rewards are far greater if you pause a moment to
appreciate the beautiful godly characteristics a child displays daily. Raising a child is an investment. You can appreciate all the treasures stored
up in a child, that unique creation of God, if you take the time to savor and
appreciate each stage, and season and moment of your child’s life.
Galatians tells me, “Do not be deceived,
God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.” There are certainly times when I forget that
I am caring for little treasures.
Honestly, I can get busy with career, daily struggles, and other
commitments, and in my exhaustion have moments when one more cry of “mommy!”
can seem like an inconvenience. There
are days when their incessant squabbling, needs and repeated requests can seem
like a burden.
I’m human.
My flesh is weak and tired. And
in those moments I have succumbed to wrong thinking. Because in my heart and mind I know that
there is no greater joy, there will be no better time spent than in those
precious moments with my children. I
will achieve nothing greater than to see them grown, confident, happy and in
full communion with God. And I will reap
no greater rewards or accolades than their confidence, respect and love.
Like each passage in the Bible, the treasures stored up in our
children are precious clues to the nature of the God we long to know. Its pages illuminate His face to us in the
truths they reveal to us. These truths
come to life every day in the words and actions of my children. Truly no words written can explain God’s
nature as powerfully as the experiences lived each day with children.
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